Video of BT Daily: 5 Reasons NOT to Celebrate Valentine's Day
Here's five tongue-in-cheek reasons not to celebrate Valentine's Day. But can you find another?
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[Steve Myers] Here’s a little tongue-in-cheek discussion on 5 reasons not to celebrate Valentine’s Day.
Number one: Flowers make you sneeze and they don’t last very long.
Number two: Pink does not make you look thinner.
In fact, number three: Pink’s a girly color that makes men feel wimpy.
Number four: Chocolate makes you fat.
Number five: Valentine’s Day is just commercialism by the greeting card companies to make millions of dollars.
Are those any reasons that you shouldn’t celebrate Valentine’s Day?
There is a more important reason, but it comes back to realizing what is
life all about. What is romance after all because Valentine’s Day is
supposed to focus on romance? And we often think of the flowers and the
candy and the meals out and all those kinds of things.
But you know what? Romance is sometimes vacuuming the house.
Romance is sometimes, yeah, cleaning the toilet or maybe changing a
diaper or two or maybe making his favorite dessert. That’s what real
romance comes down to so much of the time, real life. And sometimes we
get fooled by taking one day and trying to make something huge out of it
when in reality love is a daily thing. It’s something that we show
every single day of our life.
Christ Himself said that whatever we want men to do to us, we should
do to them. And it should be something that’s on going, not just a
onetime thing.
It reminded me of a passage that’s over in Ecclesiastes in Ecclesiastes 9:9. Ecclesiastes 9:9
says, "Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your
vain life, which He’s given you under the sun." So it’s all our days not
just one day.
And so you could probably come up with a longer list of reasons not
to celebrate Valentine’s Day, but you know they’re not all humorous.
There is another reason.
You know that many of the world’s holidays are focused and come from
roots of paganism. That’s where they’re rooted. Valentine’s Day is no
different, named after a Catholic saint. It’s rooted in paganism. Maybe
that’s a question you could ask yourself. What does God think about Valentine’s Day?
Check it out a little bit. Look at what Deuteronomy 12 has to say about it . Check it out. Do a little bit of research . You may be very surprised what you find. In fact, you’ll probably add one more big reason not to celebrate Valentine’s Day.
That’s BT Daily . We’ll see you next time.
Beyond Today Presenter, United Church of God Pastor
Steve grew up as the middle child in a close knit musical family from
the Midwest. His father was a big band leader and mother loved to sing.
She encouraged him often by saying "you can do anything you want with
God's help". His enjoyment of music increased as he earned a degree in
music education. He not only performed around the country but also
served with the USO around the world.
Abraham Lincoln delivered his famous speech 150 years ago. It would be nice to have a leader of his stature around today.
The Gettysburg Address - 150 Years Later
[Darris McNeely] This is a week of anniversaries. November 19th is the 150th Anniversary of the delivery of the Gettysburg Address by Abraham Lincoln, the president at the time, over the graves in Gettysburg of the fallen Union and Confederate soldiers in that great battle of July 1863.
It was an interesting speech. It has lived down through the years. It was a speech that offered a warning, a promise, and a hope of redemption as he pointed people to the fact that democracy planted on this soil would endure.
Thinking about that speech, thinking about this anniversary as we look at our land and our world today and especially the United States of America, going through a number of different civil problems, not quite a civil war, but challenges in our own country of debt and leadership challenges. One wonders where's the next Lincoln? Where is someone of that stature and power and bearing that can lead our people into a greater period of time?
When we stop and think about the source of our blessings coming now just a week before our national period of Thanksgiving in the United States it is a very good question to consider, and it brings to mind a scripture. 2 Chronicles 7:14If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
See All... where God said to His people, but really to any people who call upon Him, He said, "If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves and pray and seek My face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and I will forgive their sin and will heal their land."
If someone could live up to those ideals, and perhaps we can on an individual basis, but someone, a 21st Century Lincoln perhaps could lead us into yet a greater period of prosperity. Nonetheless, they are words to consider, and they're very appropriate in light of the anniversary of the Gettysburg Address.
During the American Civil War, Abraham Lincoln gave one the shortest yet most meaningful speeches in history. The two-minute address spoke to a crucial moment in the nation's history. Lincoln spoke in a redemptive tone about the judgment of God upon a single nation and what might yet be accomplished.
During the American Civil War, Abraham Lincoln gave one the shortest yet most meaningful speeches in history. The two-minute address spoke to a crucial moment in the nation's history. Lincoln spoke in a redemptive tone about the judgment of God upon a single nation and what might yet be accomplished.
Today that speech is known as the Gettysburg Address. It was so short that it was only afterward that people would begin to recognize the gravity of what was spoken.
In the annals of human history is there any more poignant and crisper message than the Gettysburg Address? If so, where?
Yes, there is a shorter message given long ago that also came to jolt a nation. Actually only four words were conveyed to those assembled. This message changed the course of not only a nation, but the entire world. It, too, would have to be later interpreted for its significance. Its meaning comes down to our day and has incredible prophetic implications for the future.
Far from the dirt roads and fields of Gettysburg, we enter a different time and place at the royal court of Babylon as described in Daniel 5:1-5 [1] Belshazzar the king made a great feast to a thousand of his lords, and drank wine before the thousand.
[2] Belshazzar, whiles he tasted the wine, commanded to bring the golden and silver vessels which his father Nebuchadnezzar had taken out of the temple which was in Jerusalem; that the king, and his princes, his wives, and his concubines, might drink therein.
[3] Then they brought the golden vessels that were taken out of the temple of the house of God which was at Jerusalem; and the king, and his princes, his wives, and his concubines, drank in them.
[4] They drank wine, and praised the gods of gold, and of silver, of brass, of iron, of wood, and of stone.
[5] In the same hour came forth fingers of a man's hand, and wrote over against the candlestick upon the plaister of the wall of the king's palace: and the king saw the part of the hand that wrote.
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It is here we discover the actions of Belshazzar, the coregent of Babylon and grandson of Nebuchadnezzar, staging a gigantic banquet for 1,000 of his closest cohorts. Many of us are familiar with this biblical event, but what is the story behind the story?
Oh, those walls!
Extrabiblical literature can help set the stage for this particular night. Herodotus, the Greek historian, offers this interesting detail of what may have preceded the great banquet:
"A battle was fought at a short distance from the city, in which the Babylonians were defeated by the Persian king, whereupon they withdrew within their defenses. Here they shut themselves up, and made light of his siege, having laid in store for many years in preparation against this attack" ( Persian Wars, Book 1, Sec. 190).
Those defenses described by the historian were purported to be walls that were 90-feet high and so wide that six chariots could ride side by side at the top. Babylon stood seemingly impregnable and invincible for the ages!
We may not realize that by this time the city of Babylon stood alone as its soon-to-be conqueror, Persia, already stretched from Media on the east to the shore of the Aegean Sea on the west. Babylon was not simply in the way—it was to be the final, great prize!
Building on the thoughts of Herodotus, the Expositor's Bible Commentary informs us that, although the Babylonians were aware of the Medo-Persian threat outside their magnificent and unassailable city, they knew beyond a doubt that no army could penetrate their fortress walls. They were secure in the knowledge that their walls had not been "stormed by invaders in over a thousand years" (Vol. 7, p. 70).
The folly of pride
Oh yes, human nature loves denying reality. It can be amazingly delusional! After all, bad things happen to everyone else—right? Why is it so often we foolishly dream of being the exception, rather than the rule?
Thus, rather than face the facts, Belshazzar chose to gloat over victories from "the good old days." They brought out the sacred vessels of his grandfather's Judean conquest and drank from them as they praised their pagan gods. Bad move! This was a raw and unadulterated abomination before the Great Disposer of all events.
While God is long-suffering, ultimately He will not be mocked. He will answer at the right time, in the right way, and His judgments are sure. Verse 5 says that "in the same hour the fingers of a man's hand appeared and wrote…[on] the wall."
You can just imagine how this shook the audience. This account describes how the king's knees were knocking against each other. Obviously, the ruler wanted to know what was written on the wall. But no one present could interpret the meaning of the four little words written in Aramaic. Perhaps they were just scared to do so.
Finally the queen suggested that one of the wise men of old "be brought out of mothballs" and given an opportunity to grant understanding to the king and his audience. She was lofty in her praise of him as she described him as a man "in whom is the Spirit of the Holy God… light and understanding and wisdom, like the wisdom of the gods, were found in him" (Daniel 5:11There is a man in thy kingdom, in whom is the spirit of the holy gods; and in the days of thy father light and understanding and wisdom, like the wisdom of the gods, was found in him; whom the king Nebuchadnezzar thy father, the king, I say, thy father, made master of the magicians, astrologers, Chaldeans, and soothsayers;
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Once again, after many years, Daniel, now perhaps nearly 80 years old, stepped upon the stage of empire as he represented a greater and ageless kingdom. He had not rushed in like the other wise men, only to be stymied. Daniel wanted to be sure all knew his interpretation had no bias. The outcome was too great to slant the news!
Beware the heart lifted up!
The aged interpreter began to offer perspective in verses 18-22 as he informed the foolish ruler that "the Most High God gave Nebuchadnezzar your [grandfather] a kingdom and majesty, glory and honor."
He described how the great ruler's "heart was lifted up, and his spirit was hardened in pride." Therefore "his heart was made like the beasts" until "he knew that the Most High God rules in the kingdom of men, and appoints over it whomever He chooses."
Yes, Nebuchadnezzar had in a sense been "benched" for seven years till he understood who is boss. Now with this stated, Daniel directly confronts Belshazzar. He indicts him for his lack of humility and refusal to learn the lessons of history visited upon his grandfather. As George Santayana, the philosopher, so aptly put it: "Those who cannot remember the past are condemned to repeat it."
Daniel made it plain as to what motivates God's activity. It is not the size of the walls around us, but the size and condition of our heart within us that makes the difference. The prophet Isaiah grants us perspective regarding the God of Daniel—our God—when he writes, "Behold, the nations are as a drop in a bucket, and are counted as the small dust on the scales" (Isaiah 40:15Behold, the nations are as a drop of a bucket, and are counted as the small dust of the balance: behold, he taketh up the isles as a very little thing.
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Belshazzar was condemned because he lifted himself up. Daniel told him, "The God who holds your breath in His hand and owns all your ways, you have not glorified" (Daniel 5:23But hast lifted up thyself against the Lord of heaven; and they have brought the vessels of his house before thee, and thou, and thy lords, thy wives, and thy concubines, have drunk wine in them; and thou hast praised the gods of silver, and gold, of brass, iron, wood, and stone, which see not, nor hear, nor know: and the God in whose hand thy breath is, and whose are all thy ways, hast thou not glorified:
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The four little words
Now, Daniel identified the author of the handwriting on the wall. The unsigned signature of this startling message that transformed the king's body into quivering Jell-O is none other than God Almighty.
It is here that four little words, brief and to the point, shake a kingdom and define the future. Everybody's eyes focus on the wall. It says, "MENE, MENE, TEKEL, UPHARSIN."
Daniel boldly interprets it. "Mene: God has numbered your kingdom, and finished it." Mene is repeated twice for emphasis. "T ekel: You have been weighed in the balances, and found wanting; P eres: Your kingdom has been divided, and given to the Medes and Persians."
It is of note that in societies of antiquity such as ancient Egypt, there are murals depicting the dead being set before scales to be measured. What is intriguing here is that Belshazzar becomes the "living dead" before the judgment seat of God.
It didn't take long for those four little words to rumble in the annals of history. Verse 30 tells us "that very night" the king was slain. Wow, what happened? The Persian general Ugbaru, King Cyrus's clever military strategist, recognized that he could not go over the walls, so he went under by diverting the Euphrates River into an old channel dug by a previous ruler. This reduced the water level well below the river gates. The rest is history, as the Persians and Medes waded thigh deep into a city that was caught asleep.
What do the words mean for us?
But what does this mean for us in the 21st century? Prophecy is often dual in nature—or what might be defined as "layered" as it builds toward a future climax. The Babylonian king who was removed from his throne as he spoke (Daniel 4:31While the word was in the king's mouth, there fell a voice from heaven, saying, O king Nebuchadnezzar, to thee it is spoken; The kingdom is departed from thee.
See All...) and that king's grandson who was "in the same hour" admonished by God (Daniel 5:5In the same hour came forth fingers of a man's hand, and wrote over against the candlestick upon the plaister of the wall of the king's palace: and the king saw the part of the hand that wrote.
See All...) and was "that very night slain" (Daniel 5:30In that night was Belshazzar the king of the Chaldeans slain.
See All...) foreshadow a scenario yet to occur between God Almighty and what He reveals as a Babylonian-type system yet to arise.
Again, there'll be three key ingredients: 1) God, 2) a worldly ruler and 3) an end-time "Babylon." Revelation 13:1And I stood upon the sand of the sea, and saw a beast rise up out of the sea, having seven heads and ten horns, and upon his horns ten crowns, and upon his heads the name of blasphemy.
See All..., 4-6 identifies this system as "a beast," just like the original head of the golden kingdom, Nebuchadnezzar, who became like a beast when God removed his kingdom from him.
Just like ancient times, people are going to be amazed at this future system. They are going to marvel, "Who is like the Beast?" (verse 4), just like mankind did long ago when they gawked at the immensity of Babylon's nine-story walls and said, "What's the use? If you can't beat 'em, join 'em."
It is of note that God further defines this future system with its mix of political and religious power as "Babylon" in Revelation 17:1-6 [1] And there came one of the seven angels which had the seven vials, and talked with me, saying unto me, Come hither; I will shew unto thee the judgment of the great whore that sitteth upon many waters:
[2] With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication.
[3] So he carried me away in the spirit into the wilderness: and I saw a woman sit upon a scarlet coloured beast, full of names of blasphemy, having seven heads and ten horns.
[4] And the woman was arrayed in purple and scarlet colour, and decked with gold and precious stones and pearls, having a golden cup in her hand full of abominations and filthiness of her fornication:
[5] And upon her forehead was a name written, MYSTERY, BABYLON THE GREAT, THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS AND ABOMINATIONS OF THE EARTH.
[6] And I saw the woman drunken with the blood of the saints, and with the blood of the martyrs of Jesus: and when I saw her, I wondered with great admiration.
See All.... In verse 4 the politico-religious system is identified as "having in her hand a golden cup full of abominations." Note that a religious vessel is being used in a wrong fashion just like long ago on that night before Babylon fell.
"In one hour your judgment has come"
What's truly amazing is that in its foolish arrogance this future Babylon is going to fight against God. Just imagine that for a moment. Humans are going to have the pride and the false security that comes with it to fight their very Creator! Revelation 19:19-20 [19] And I saw the beast, and the kings of the earth, and their armies, gathered together to make war against him that sat on the horse, and against his army.
[20] And the beast was taken, and with him the false prophet that wrought miracles before him, with which he deceived them that had received the mark of the beast, and them that worshipped his image. These both were cast alive into a lake of fire burning with brimstone.
See All... plainly states that this Beast system identified with Babylon is going to gather "together to make war against Him who sat on the horse and against His army." Utterly incredible, isn't it? But God has seen the future and brings it to us.
Jesus Christ not only brings us these troubling tidings, but encourages us that this system is going to be as swiftly destroyed as ancient Babylon. Consider how similar the language in Revelation 18:9-10 [9] And the kings of the earth, who have committed fornication and lived deliciously with her, shall bewail her, and lament for her, when they shall see the smoke of her burning,
[10] Standing afar off for the fear of her torment, saying, Alas, alas that great city Babylon, that mighty city! for in one hour is thy judgment come.
See All..., 15-19 is to that of Daniel's prior experience. This future system, seemingly safe in its own vaunted opinion, will likewise discover "in one hour your judgment has come" (verse 10). It is repeated for effect in verse 17: "For in one hour such great riches came to nothing." Then, as now, God will not be mocked.
So what do we learn?
What lessons may we learn from these four little words with a big meaning?
Lesson one: There is an "hour of judgment" visited upon all humanity, not just Belshazzar. All nations and peoples, then and now and in the future, will be "measured and weighed" on the same common scale. That scale is found in Revelation 14:6-7 [6] And I saw another angel fly in the midst of heaven, having the everlasting gospel to preach unto them that dwell on the earth, and to every nation, and kindred, and tongue, and people,
[7] Saying with a loud voice, Fear God, and give glory to him; for the hour of his judgment is come: and worship him that made heaven, and earth, and the sea, and the fountains of waters.
See All..., which defines an everlasting gospel in which we are to 1) fear God, 2) give Him glory and 3) worship Him.
Why? "For the hour of His judgment has come." The lesson of the four little words is that God did not just wind up the universe and let it go. He chooses to intervene when, where and how He chooses. Ask Belshazzar!
Lesson two: We need not be afraid. God grants us the same "excellent Spirit" that guided Daniel. It is identified in the same passage (Daniel 5:11-12 [11] There is a man in thy kingdom, in whom is the spirit of the holy gods; and in the days of thy father light and understanding and wisdom, like the wisdom of the gods, was found in him; whom the king Nebuchadnezzar thy father, the king, I say, thy father, made master of the magicians, astrologers, Chaldeans, and soothsayers;
[12] Forasmuch as an excellent spirit, and knowledge, and understanding, interpreting of dreams, and shewing of hard sentences, and dissolving of doubts, were found in the same Daniel, whom the king named Belteshazzar: now let Daniel be called, and he will shew the interpretation.
See All...) as being the Spirit of the Holy God. Yes—the Holy Spirit is at work in us as well to guide us with understanding in the emergence of any system or society that confronts the sanctity of God. A scripture is great, but Daniel's story gives us something to hold on to. "We read to know we are not alone," as C.S. Lewis said.
Lesson three: Babylon and its mighty bulwarks reminds us it is not the size of the walls in front of us, but the size and condition of our hearts inside of us that is the ultimate strength that God centers on. Solomon spoke to this when he focused on how our Righteous Judge "weighs the hearts…and keeps your soul" (Proverbs 24:12If thou sayest, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider it? and he that keepeth thy soul, doth not he know it? and shall not he render to every man according to his works?
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Yes, God is a God of judgment, and He weighs and measures nations and people alike—past, present and future. The good news is we do not have to be weighed and "found wanting."
Perhaps the encouragement found in Isaiah 30:21And thine ears shall hear a word behind thee, saying, This is the way, walk ye in it, when ye turn to the right hand, and when ye turn to the left.
See All... of "this is the way, walk in it" is best realized in the words of Daniel when He reminds not only kings, but us, to remember that it is "God who holds your breath in His hand and owns all your ways." WNP
Time to take a lesson from the greatest leader... Jesus Christ.
[Darris McNeely] So what's the point of President's Day? Every year at this time in the United States we have a three day weekend because of what is called President's Day, a federal holiday. A lot of people want to catch a sale: maybe furniture sale, auto sales. But because of that vacation, sales we lose the real meaning of what the day is all about.
Originally President's Day was divided into two days, the two birthdays, George Washington and Abraham Lincoln, both falling in February. A few years ago a decision was made to combine it into one day and give everybody a three day weekend. But in the process as so often happens we lose the point of where did the day come from. What is the real meaning? What should we learn?
Here's my suggestion: no matter where you live because I recognize President's Day may not mean anything to you outside of the United States, but let's look at what we might pick up and learn as a point of leadership.
Wherever you are, whatever you're feeling about this, pick a leader male or female, not only from politics but from any area of life, and learn something about leadership. And here's the ultimate lesson in leadership I think that we can learn from the ultimate leader Jesus Christ, who when His disciples were jockeying among themselves about who would be the greatest, He looked at them and He said, "He who would be the greatest among you, let him be your servant" (Matthew 20:25-28 [25] But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Ye know that the princes of the Gentiles exercise dominion over them, and they that are great exercise authority upon them.
[26] But it shall not be so among you: but whosoever will be great among you, let him be your minister;
[27] And whosoever will be chief among you, let him be your servant:
[28] Even as the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.
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Humility. Service. Hallmarks of any great leader no matter where they may find themselves. That perhaps is the point of President's Day and every day.
For BT Daily , I'm Darris McNeely. Join us next time.
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